TLW 影響你come out 的機率是多大?? 先承認，本人原本也是chicken一隻… 連ex在公眾場合要牽我的手,都會想辦法避開… 雖說我們2人都是隱性的….但總是覺得心虛….XD… 但經過TLW三季的洗禮…現在come out的程度是80%… 因為太愛小貝那份對自我認同的驕傲…(這理由有點豬頭,我承認!!) 看到劇中人物活得那麼自...那麼proud…(也有可能因為是drama的關係而誇張了) 就覺得不想再壓抑自己了…也不想活在謊言下… 但為什麼還保留了20%呢?! 因為畢竟大環境底下….大部份的人都還是old-fashioned…. 所以在come out 的時候…..就要視情況而定了…… 像本人在學校就是全然的坦蕩蕩…… 知道的人就知道……不知道的我也不會刻意去隱瞞,但也不會打著旗號招搖過街….. 而在工作場合….也就盡量不要去提到自身的sexuality 但如果有人問…輕描淡寫的帶過…… 以下是本人came out後得到的反應所整理的心得…..哈哈 1. open-minded型─ I knew it….我早就懷疑你啦~~ but I don't have any problem with u. 2. old-fashioned 型─ 蛤~~~啊喲…..(外加鄙視的眼光兼成為蜚言流語的箭靶) ↑以上這種人都會讓我想挖開他的腦袋看看裡面灌了幾噸的水泥! ((啊不然還是你還活在侏儸紀啊!!!!)) 3. I don't believe u + u r kidding me 型─ 這就要劇情簡介啦~ (M→me, F→friend ) F: I don't believe u…..u r not. M: I am. F: u don't. M: I do. F: u can't be. M: how so? F: b/c u have no any figure like a lez. M: so what~ but I really am. F: u r kidding, right? M: 唉~ yeah~ I am kidding. Don't mind". 4. u can be a challenge型─ 通常發生在異男身上，他們拒絕承認你的sexuality也拒絕承認他們的失敗…. 所以我處理的方式，就是端正嚴肅的對他們說: "I am not play at ur team; step back and I won't be ur challenge." 5. I'm sorry, u r not my friend anymore 型─ Ouch! 很明顯, these are not real friends. 所以在難過一陣子後…..I don't care u, b/c u r not my friends too. 6. why don't u give it a try 型─ M: I am so tire of these men after me. F**k~~~ F: well, why don't u give it a try….u might fall for him… M: (OS: bullshit!) Why I have to try to prove it, I know what I want. F: if u don't try, u never know. M: (咬牙切齒)…..thank u, but I think I'm smart enough to know it. (OS: why don't u try to be a gay/lez, u might love it. b/c I don't think u r as smart as me and u don't know what u want. (臉上掛著笑)) 7. disregard型─ Okay, b/c u already r my friend. I don't judge u. but don't count on me that I'd accept it and support u. that's all. So sad, 通常這型的朋友最終還是保不住…….(搖頭…..)唉~~~~ 8. 婆媽型─ 婆媽: it's so wrong and u r young. U r a female and u belong with male. That's why God created male and female. Blah blah… Me: (OS: shit! shit! shit! why I told her this. I'm so stupid. And who cares what the shit he created. I don't care (screaming~)) Three days later~ 婆媽: blah-blah……… One week later~ 婆媽: blah-blah……… One month later~ 婆媽: blah-blah……… Me: (OS: Dammit! This woman is awesome. She can just use her mouth and kill me. If all women so much like her, I might turn to men.) Three months later~ 婆媽: blah-blah……… Me: (OS: ok! Enough! Let me die.) 以上是come out肥皂劇….表演完畢…下台一鞠躬……((掌聲鼓勵鼓勵….))… 不知是否在越來越多人come out 的情況下…. 有一天我們也能在很開心的說: "Be gay/lez be proud" come out的路上有喜有悲……..姐妹們….加油啦…. --

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