TLW 影响你come out 的机率是多大?? 先承认，本人原本也是chicken一只… 连ex在公众场合要牵我的手,都会想办法避开… 虽说我们2人都是隐性的….但总是觉得心虚….XD… 但经过TLW三季的洗礼…现在come out的程度是80%… 因为太爱小贝那份对自我认同的骄傲…(这理由有点猪头,我承认!!) 看到剧中人物活得那麽自...那麽proud…(也有可能因为是drama的关系而夸张了) 就觉得不想再压抑自己了…也不想活在谎言下… 但为什麽还保留了20%呢?! 因为毕竟大环境底下….大部份的人都还是old-fashioned…. 所以在come out 的时候…..就要视情况而定了…… 像本人在学校就是全然的坦荡荡…… 知道的人就知道……不知道的我也不会刻意去隐瞒,但也不会打着旗号招摇过街….. 而在工作场合….也就尽量不要去提到自身的sexuality 但如果有人问…轻描淡写的带过…… 以下是本人came out後得到的反应所整理的心得…..哈哈 1. open-minded型─ I knew it….我早就怀疑你啦~~ but I don't have any problem with u. 2. old-fashioned 型─ 蛤~~~啊哟…..(外加鄙视的眼光兼成为蜚言流语的箭靶) ↑以上这种人都会让我想挖开他的脑袋看看里面灌了几吨的水泥! ((啊不然还是你还活在侏罗纪啊!!!!)) 3. I don't believe u + u r kidding me 型─ 这就要剧情简介啦~ (M→me, F→friend ) F: I don't believe u…..u r not. M: I am. F: u don't. M: I do. F: u can't be. M: how so? F: b/c u have no any figure like a lez. M: so what~ but I really am. F: u r kidding, right? M: 唉~ yeah~ I am kidding. Don't mind". 4. u can be a challenge型─ 通常发生在异男身上，他们拒绝承认你的sexuality也拒绝承认他们的失败…. 所以我处理的方式，就是端正严肃的对他们说: "I am not play at ur team; step back and I won't be ur challenge." 5. I'm sorry, u r not my friend anymore 型─ Ouch! 很明显, these are not real friends. 所以在难过一阵子後…..I don't care u, b/c u r not my friends too. 6. why don't u give it a try 型─ M: I am so tire of these men after me. F**k~~~ F: well, why don't u give it a try….u might fall for him… M: (OS: bullshit!) Why I have to try to prove it, I know what I want. F: if u don't try, u never know. M: (咬牙切齿)…..thank u, but I think I'm smart enough to know it. (OS: why don't u try to be a gay/lez, u might love it. b/c I don't think u r as smart as me and u don't know what u want. (脸上挂着笑)) 7. disregard型─ Okay, b/c u already r my friend. I don't judge u. but don't count on me that I'd accept it and support u. that's all. So sad, 通常这型的朋友最终还是保不住…….(摇头…..)唉~~~~ 8. 婆妈型─ 婆妈: it's so wrong and u r young. U r a female and u belong with male. That's why God created male and female. Blah blah… Me: (OS: shit! shit! shit! why I told her this. I'm so stupid. And who cares what the shit he created. I don't care (screaming~)) Three days later~ 婆妈: blah-blah……… One week later~ 婆妈: blah-blah……… One month later~ 婆妈: blah-blah……… Me: (OS: Dammit! This woman is awesome. She can just use her mouth and kill me. If all women so much like her, I might turn to men.) Three months later~ 婆妈: blah-blah……… Me: (OS: ok! Enough! Let me die.) 以上是come out肥皂剧….表演完毕…下台一鞠躬……((掌声鼓励鼓励….))… 不知是否在越来越多人come out 的情况下…. 有一天我们也能在很开心的说: "Be gay/lez be proud" come out的路上有喜有悲……..姐妹们….加油啦…. --

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