※ 引述《mazdathird (Cindybabe)》之銘言： : 標題: [閒聊] 被小胖問:你這麼胖,幹麻在冬天穿短裙? : 時間: Sun Jan 11 07:46:10 2009 : : 一直到我回家突然想到這段話, : : 一直到從那之後我就再也沒跟他對話過, : : 一直到從那之後他就再也沒跟我對話過, : : 我明白了他這段話想表達的是什麼, : : 你們想的跟我一樣嗎? : : 還是你跟當下的我一樣傻? : : 對! 幹他媽的,他就是在很自然的反諷我那麼胖還整天穿短裙短褲. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Actually, here is not the Hate board, please behave yourself : 這件事情,老娘悶了很久,今天跟NAGISA寶貝聊突然聊到, : 然後就再跟我的PTT好友靠北一遍. : 我常常聽到身邊的男性友人會" 嫌 " 女路人腿很粗、屁股很大、奶很小或者臉很醜, : 但我必須告訴你們這些膚淺又沒品的男生說: 美醜的定義在個人, 但請不要批評人. I agree with you, but I think I benefit from others' criticisms since I realize how to enhance my weaknesses, and I would encourage you to take a broader point of view : 有時候我都在想,到底為何我們要去在意路人的想法? 為何要去在意別人的眼光? Because we are human! We live in communities that are constructed by the whole society, not your own individual or anybody alone. : 我不懂那些"嫌"別人胖、"嫌"別人醜的人到底存著什麼樣的心態? : 你是在好心提醒嗎? 或者, 你跟他說之後,想得到怎麼樣的答案? : 又或者,這樣說可以讓你得到短暫的虛榮? 藉由貶低別人來得到自信? Some are trying to remind you, and some others might focus on teasing other people to gain self confidences as you supposed, which is a stupid idea. : : 當然我不懂那位小胖存著什麼心, 有人跟我說是找話題, : 那我只能說,先生,你找錯也踩到我的地雷了! : 因為, 從此之後,我連正眼都不想再看你一眼. I would consider him as a stupid guy, but you don't have to behave like this, it damages your generousness, which makes you become a narrow-minded person. : SO...我要說的是, 我再胖再醜都不關別人的事情,even是我的男友, I would sincerely suggest that you should take others' criticisms sometimes, it helps you. : 因為我不會為了任何人減肥, 為了任何人變美, : 我減肥,我變美,都只為了我自己看不順眼而已! : 那都不會是為了任何人的不順眼! GOD IT ? 是"got it"吧........ : -- : Cindy : www.wretch.cc/album/cindybabe520 --

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