※ 引述《mazdathird (Cindybabe)》之铭言： : 标题: [闲聊] 被小胖问:你这麽胖,干麻在冬天穿短裙? : 时间: Sun Jan 11 07:46:10 2009 : : 一直到我回家突然想到这段话, : : 一直到从那之後我就再也没跟他对话过, : : 一直到从那之後他就再也没跟我对话过, : : 我明白了他这段话想表达的是什麽, : : 你们想的跟我一样吗? : : 还是你跟当下的我一样傻? : : 对! 干他妈的,他就是在很自然的反讽我那麽胖还整天穿短裙短裤. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Actually, here is not the Hate board, please behave yourself : 这件事情,老娘闷了很久,今天跟NAGISA宝贝聊突然聊到, : 然後就再跟我的PTT好友靠北一遍. : 我常常听到身边的男性友人会" 嫌 " 女路人腿很粗、屁股很大、奶很小或者脸很丑, : 但我必须告诉你们这些肤浅又没品的男生说: 美丑的定义在个人, 但请不要批评人. I agree with you, but I think I benefit from others' criticisms since I realize how to enhance my weaknesses, and I would encourage you to take a broader point of view : 有时候我都在想,到底为何我们要去在意路人的想法? 为何要去在意别人的眼光? Because we are human! We live in communities that are constructed by the whole society, not your own individual or anybody alone. : 我不懂那些"嫌"别人胖、"嫌"别人丑的人到底存着什麽样的心态? : 你是在好心提醒吗? 或者, 你跟他说之後,想得到怎麽样的答案? : 又或者,这样说可以让你得到短暂的虚荣? 藉由贬低别人来得到自信? Some are trying to remind you, and some others might focus on teasing other people to gain self confidences as you supposed, which is a stupid idea. : : 当然我不懂那位小胖存着什麽心, 有人跟我说是找话题, : 那我只能说,先生,你找错也踩到我的地雷了! : 因为, 从此之後,我连正眼都不想再看你一眼. I would consider him as a stupid guy, but you don't have to behave like this, it damages your generousness, which makes you become a narrow-minded person. : SO...我要说的是, 我再胖再丑都不关别人的事情,even是我的男友, I would sincerely suggest that you should take others' criticisms sometimes, it helps you. : 因为我不会为了任何人减肥, 为了任何人变美, : 我减肥,我变美,都只为了我自己看不顺眼而已! : 那都不会是为了任何人的不顺眼! GOD IT ? 是"got it"吧........ : -- : Cindy : www.wretch.cc/album/cindybabe520 --

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