一位朋友或同事可能在翻一個你/妳認為已經解決的舊帳或問題。對你/妳而言，這件事情 早已用你/妳認為最好的方式解決了，而且你/妳不再需要處理這件事情。然而，別人可能 不這麼想。你/妳需要重申你的觀點嗎？不！如果這件事情已經正式解決了，金牛，就放 下吧！就算事情早已有定論或解決，人們還是可以隨心所欲地抱怨。嘗試辯解已定案的事 情可能被 視為藉口。你/妳不需要這麼做。你/妳沒有責任為別人的感受負責。 — A friend or a work associate may be dredging up an old issue that you thought had been resolved. To you, this issue was satisfied in the best way possible, and you didn't think you would ever hear about it again. However, another part y does not see it that way. Do you have to start over to explain your point of view? No. If it was formally resolved, Taurus, just let it go. Someone can co mplain all they want if a solution was already reached. Trying to justify what has already been decided might be perceived as an excuse. You don't need to d o that. You are not responsible for someone else's feelings. --

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