一位朋友或同事可能在翻一个你/你认为已经解决的旧帐或问题。对你/你而言，这件事情 早已用你/你认为最好的方式解决了，而且你/你不再需要处理这件事情。然而，别人可能 不这麽想。你/你需要重申你的观点吗？不！如果这件事情已经正式解决了，金牛，就放 下吧！就算事情早已有定论或解决，人们还是可以随心所欲地抱怨。尝试辩解已定案的事 情可能被 视为藉口。你/你不需要这麽做。你/你没有责任为别人的感受负责。 — A friend or a work associate may be dredging up an old issue that you thought had been resolved. To you, this issue was satisfied in the best way possible, and you didn't think you would ever hear about it again. However, another part y does not see it that way. Do you have to start over to explain your point of view? No. If it was formally resolved, Taurus, just let it go. Someone can co mplain all they want if a solution was already reached. Trying to justify what has already been decided might be perceived as an excuse. You don't need to d o that. You are not responsible for someone else's feelings. --

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