只有當你將他人的狠話放在心上，他們才能夠傷害你。只有當你相信他們討論有關你的八 卦的真實性時，他們才能貶低你。換句話說，阿牛，這一切都取決於你。別人對你的評價 或對待你的方式只在你允許的狀況下才會影響到你。而你目前正與欺負你的人打交道，霸 凌正代表著他們的行為，將它隱藏起來吧。它確實無關緊要，你只需將它視為空氣。 —— Someone can only hurt you if you take their cruel words to heart. Someone can only demean you if you believe the things they say about you. In other words, Taurus, it is all in your hands. What someone else says about you or how they treat you can only affect you if you allow it. If you are currently dealing wi th a bully of some sort - and bullying is what that kind of behavior represent s - then just block it out. It is truly irrelevant, and that's how you have to treat it. —— --

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