只有当你将他人的狠话放在心上，他们才能够伤害你。只有当你相信他们讨论有关你的八 卦的真实性时，他们才能贬低你。换句话说，阿牛，这一切都取决於你。别人对你的评价 或对待你的方式只在你允许的状况下才会影响到你。而你目前正与欺负你的人打交道，霸 凌正代表着他们的行为，将它隐藏起来吧。它确实无关紧要，你只需将它视为空气。 —— Someone can only hurt you if you take their cruel words to heart. Someone can only demean you if you believe the things they say about you. In other words, Taurus, it is all in your hands. What someone else says about you or how they treat you can only affect you if you allow it. If you are currently dealing wi th a bully of some sort - and bullying is what that kind of behavior represent s - then just block it out. It is truly irrelevant, and that's how you have to treat it. —— --

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