最近可能有人對你不好，阿牛。與其用防禦性的膝跳反應來應對，仔細想想，你需要分析 他們為什麼會有這樣的行為。問問自己這是否並不常見，以及為什麼他們會出現這樣的狀 況。如果你在分析中加入同情心，就可能會發現你被對待的方式來自於恐懼或壓力。它可 能沒有反映出那個人對你的真實感受。無論如何，都要以善意回應。 —— Someone may have treated you badly recently, Taurus. But rather than a knee-je rk reaction that is mostly defensive, if you think about it, you need to analy ze why they behaved in such a way. Ask yourself if this is uncommon, and what reasons might have caused the behavior. If you add compassion to your analysis , you may just find that the way you were treated came from a place of fear or stress. It may not have reflected how that person truly feels about you. Be k ind in return, no matter what. —— --

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