最近可能有人对你不好，阿牛。与其用防御性的膝跳反应来应对，仔细想想，你需要分析 他们为什麽会有这样的行为。问问自己这是否并不常见，以及为什麽他们会出现这样的状 况。如果你在分析中加入同情心，就可能会发现你被对待的方式来自於恐惧或压力。它可 能没有反映出那个人对你的真实感受。无论如何，都要以善意回应。 —— Someone may have treated you badly recently, Taurus. But rather than a knee-je rk reaction that is mostly defensive, if you think about it, you need to analy ze why they behaved in such a way. Ask yourself if this is uncommon, and what reasons might have caused the behavior. If you add compassion to your analysis , you may just find that the way you were treated came from a place of fear or stress. It may not have reflected how that person truly feels about you. Be k ind in return, no matter what. —— --

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