善良絕不是個糟糕的選擇。同樣地，客氣、有禮、尊重與和藹的對待他人最後總是會得到 回報。即使你面對的是個不那麼正直的人，親愛的阿牛，一個不傾向於用你對待他們的方 式來對待你的人，仍然在面對他時發揮以上幾個特質吧。至少在一開始會讓你認為自己很 棒，這才是最重要的。最近一次被利用的經驗不該使你變得不像自己。如果你發現自己受 到了不公平的對待時，讓這些特質決定你的反應，而不是你最初的做法。 —— Being kind is never a bad choice. Likewise, being civil, polite, respectful, a nd compassionate will always pay off in the end. Even if you are dealing with someone who is less than honorable, dear Taurus, someone who is not inclined t o treat you in the same way you are treating them, bringing all of the above c haracteristics into play - initially, at least - will leave you feeling good a bout yourself, and that's what's important. A recent experience of feeling tak en advantage of should not cause you to be less than you are. If you find you are treated unfairly, let that dictate your response, not your initial approac h. —— civil 有禮、國內、民事的 incline 傾向、傾斜 take advantage of 利用、佔某人便宜 dictate 決定、主宰、命令、指揮 initial approach 初步方法 --

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