善良绝不是个糟糕的选择。同样地，客气、有礼、尊重与和蔼的对待他人最後总是会得到 回报。即使你面对的是个不那麽正直的人，亲爱的阿牛，一个不倾向於用你对待他们的方 式来对待你的人，仍然在面对他时发挥以上几个特质吧。至少在一开始会让你认为自己很 棒，这才是最重要的。最近一次被利用的经验不该使你变得不像自己。如果你发现自己受 到了不公平的对待时，让这些特质决定你的反应，而不是你最初的做法。 —— Being kind is never a bad choice. Likewise, being civil, polite, respectful, a nd compassionate will always pay off in the end. Even if you are dealing with someone who is less than honorable, dear Taurus, someone who is not inclined t o treat you in the same way you are treating them, bringing all of the above c haracteristics into play - initially, at least - will leave you feeling good a bout yourself, and that's what's important. A recent experience of feeling tak en advantage of should not cause you to be less than you are. If you find you are treated unfairly, let that dictate your response, not your initial approac h. —— civil 有礼、国内、民事的 incline 倾向、倾斜 take advantage of 利用、占某人便宜 dictate 决定、主宰、命令、指挥 initial approach 初步方法 --

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