你或許會認為要讓一段個人關係重回正軌需要很深度的努力。也許你們的誤解和困難的互 動可以追溯到相當久之前，阿牛。但你或許會發現，尤其在這周，如果你開始在一個更輕 鬆、友好且隨和的層面與對方接觸，它將會用一種更柔和的方式對你打開溝通的管道。 換句話說，與其把這個問題當作一個大問題，不如把他們帶來玩桌遊或打牌，也可以出去 喝杯咖啡，聊些無傷大雅、快樂的事。你懂的，沒有對衝突的恐懼，就不會有人處在防備 狀態。 你最近因為工作或某種合作關係而受委屈，或許會導致你處在一個”打或跑”的模式，你 也可能會想逃離這一切，但這種感覺可能是基於內心累積的壓力和需要釋放它的需求。 暫時往後退一步，只考慮你們的關係中比較愉快的那部分，可能會有幫助，這將會為你帶 來免於擔憂的自由，也會使你的觀點更加柔軟。 與金錢或法律事務的好消息可能會在週末前到來。 ——— Weekly horoscope for 02/07-02/13 You may think that getting a personal relationship back on track will require a lot of deep, hard work. Perhaps the misunderstandings and difficult interact ions go back a long way, Taurus. But you may find - especially this week - tha t if you start to engage the other party on a lighter, friendlier, more casual level, it will open up the lines of communications in a softer way. In other words, rather than addressing the issue as a big problem, try just relating on e person to the other. Play a board game or card game. Go out for a coffee and chat about harmless, happy things. You get the idea. Without the fear of a co nfrontation, no one will be on the defensive. Recent aggravation with work or with a partnership of some kind might be causing you to lock into a "fight or flight" mode. You may want to just run away from it all. But this feeling is p robably based on the sense of stress building up inside and a need to release it. It may help to just back off a bit and to think only about the more pleasa nt aspects of your relationship for a while. That will give you the freedom fr om worry, and may soften your outlook. Good news related to money or a legal m atter may come before the weekend. ——— 本週單字 engage 接觸 confrontation 對抗；衝突 aggravation 委屈；惱怒 pleasant 愉快；友好 outlook 觀點； --

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