有時後，那些痛苦、不堪回首的經歷同時也是使我們變得更好的契機。 這些多年前，甚至是數十年以前所經歷的事情，依舊持續影響著你。 呣呣~你可以選擇讓這些痛持續在身上發作，讓這些回憶頻繁地騷擾自己。 但若你選擇去回溯這些記憶，再銜接今天的自己，你會發現這些回憶已然轉型，變成成就你 生命的某一部分。 試著思考這些轉變，而非陷入過往的泥淖之中。 註:今天的自己比昨天更好了嗎? 過去痛苦的回憶並不會轉變成甜美的果實，只是在身上留下鮮豔的疤痕。 而這些疤痕成就了現在的你。 別試著將過去拋下或忘記，那些不堪的黑歷史正式塑造你人格特質不可或缺的重要關鍵。 最後，聽首歌吧 https://youtu.be/NjTT5_RSkw4 〈平凡之路〉-「我曾經失落失望失掉所有方向，直到看見平凡才是唯一的答案。」 Sometimes the most traumatic or painful things we go through in our lives are also the same things that change our lives for the better. Something you went through some time ago - perhaps a very long time ago - is with you still. You can still feel the sting of what happened , Taurus , and you may think about it quite frequently. But if you follow it along its track in your memory to where it leads to today , you will see that it also transformed your life in some way. Think about that transformation rather than the unpleasant experiences. --

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