有时後，那些痛苦、不堪回首的经历同时也是使我们变得更好的契机。 这些多年前，甚至是数十年以前所经历的事情，依旧持续影响着你。 呣呣~你可以选择让这些痛持续在身上发作，让这些回忆频繁地骚扰自己。 但若你选择去回溯这些记忆，再衔接今天的自己，你会发现这些回忆已然转型，变成成就你 生命的某一部分。 试着思考这些转变，而非陷入过往的泥淖之中。 注:今天的自己比昨天更好了吗? 过去痛苦的回忆并不会转变成甜美的果实，只是在身上留下鲜艳的疤痕。 而这些疤痕成就了现在的你。 别试着将过去抛下或忘记，那些不堪的黑历史正式塑造你人格特质不可或缺的重要关键。 最後，听首歌吧 https://youtu.be/NjTT5_RSkw4 〈平凡之路〉-「我曾经失落失望失掉所有方向，直到看见平凡才是唯一的答案。」 Sometimes the most traumatic or painful things we go through in our lives are also the same things that change our lives for the better. Something you went through some time ago - perhaps a very long time ago - is with you still. You can still feel the sting of what happened , Taurus , and you may think about it quite frequently. But if you follow it along its track in your memory to where it leads to today , you will see that it also transformed your life in some way. Think about that transformation rather than the unpleasant experiences. --

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