你最近可能嘗試幫他人解決問題。 或許，你已經看透了這個問題既有的挑戰與難題點。 但呣呣~即便你提供了所有的幫助，但可能事與願違。 事實上，不去參與尋找問題的解答甚至會更好。 因為他人的成見會導致看不清問題點，甚至自始至終都不把它當成問題。 你會如此認為進而產生責任感。 但如果它並無惡化－－或是到最後都沒惡化的跡象－－那有什麼必須修正的嗎? 有時候，你必須承認不去幫某些人處理麻煩事會是較為明智的選擇。 註:這篇談到的比較像是「無助感」，有時候即便自己傾全力幫忙，但他人聽不進去 就是聽不進去，這時不妨將這件事看成他個人的常態－－至少自己會好過點。 題外話:....在其他版發文被認出來好害羞 =艸= You may be trying to help someone out with a problem. You may see the consequences that could develop and the challenges that are inherent in this problem. But for all the help you have offered , Taurus , the one you hope to help doesn't seem to be grateful. In fact , they may not even be participating in finding the solution. That may be because that individual does not see the problem as a problem at all. That may just be your perspective. But if it isn't broken--or at least perceived as broken -- then what is there to fix ? Sometimes , it's good to recognize that it isn't always wise to fix someone else's problem. --

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