你最近可能尝试帮他人解决问题。 或许，你已经看透了这个问题既有的挑战与难题点。 但呣呣~即便你提供了所有的帮助，但可能事与愿违。 事实上，不去参与寻找问题的解答甚至会更好。 因为他人的成见会导致看不清问题点，甚至自始至终都不把它当成问题。 你会如此认为进而产生责任感。 但如果它并无恶化－－或是到最後都没恶化的迹象－－那有什麽必须修正的吗? 有时候，你必须承认不去帮某些人处理麻烦事会是较为明智的选择。 注:这篇谈到的比较像是「无助感」，有时候即便自己倾全力帮忙，但他人听不进去 就是听不进去，这时不妨将这件事看成他个人的常态－－至少自己会好过点。 题外话:....在其他版发文被认出来好害羞 =艹= You may be trying to help someone out with a problem. You may see the consequences that could develop and the challenges that are inherent in this problem. But for all the help you have offered , Taurus , the one you hope to help doesn't seem to be grateful. In fact , they may not even be participating in finding the solution. That may be because that individual does not see the problem as a problem at all. That may just be your perspective. But if it isn't broken--or at least perceived as broken -- then what is there to fix ? Sometimes , it's good to recognize that it isn't always wise to fix someone else's problem. --

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