You may feel a heavy sense of obligation toward someone who frequently asks you for favors. You might genuinely want to decline, particularly because a recent request is especially inconvenient, yet guilt keeps you from speaking up. If you look back over these exchanges, dear Scorpio, you might begin to notice an unhealthy pattern. Are your efforts being taken for granted? Has this person simply grown accustomed to leaning on you for tasks they can handle themselves? Honor your boundaries today, and make yourself the highest priority. 你也許會對某個很常找你幫忙的人有著沉重的責任感，你可能是發自內心地想拒絕他， 尤其是因為他最近的要求造成了額外的負擔與不便，可是你的愧疚感一直讓你不敢為 自己發聲。如果你回頭檢視那些互動，親愛的天蠍，那你或許會開始注意到一種不健 康的互動模式。你的付出是不是被視為理所當然了呢？這個人是不是就這樣逐漸習慣 了依賴你去做那些他明明可以自己處理的事情？今天，你要尊重並且恪守自己的界線， 並且把自己擺在最重要也最優先的位置。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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