You may feel a heavy sense of obligation toward someone who frequently asks you for favors. You might genuinely want to decline, particularly because a recent request is especially inconvenient, yet guilt keeps you from speaking up. If you look back over these exchanges, dear Scorpio, you might begin to notice an unhealthy pattern. Are your efforts being taken for granted? Has this person simply grown accustomed to leaning on you for tasks they can handle themselves? Honor your boundaries today, and make yourself the highest priority. 你也许会对某个很常找你帮忙的人有着沉重的责任感，你可能是发自内心地想拒绝他， 尤其是因为他最近的要求造成了额外的负担与不便，可是你的愧疚感一直让你不敢为 自己发声。如果你回头检视那些互动，亲爱的天蠍，那你或许会开始注意到一种不健 康的互动模式。你的付出是不是被视为理所当然了呢？这个人是不是就这样逐渐习惯 了依赖你去做那些他明明可以自己处理的事情？今天，你要尊重并且恪守自己的界线， 并且把自己摆在最重要也最优先的位置。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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