You might want to go to the source of a problem to help a friend out. This is not your problem, dear Scorpio, but you may feel a strong need to help this person out. Perhaps you want to serve as an advocate, but before you do, you need to assess your role in this. Do you actually have a role? Is this truly your problem to solve? Or is this something the other party should be resolving on their own? If it's the latter, offering encouragement and support would be better than managing things directly. 你也許會想要找出問題的根源來幫助朋友，這不是你的問題，親愛的天蠍，但是你可 能會覺得很想要幫這個人。或許你想要成為一名倡導者，不過在你這樣做之前，你需 要評估自己在那之中的角色。你是真的有這個任務要做嗎？這真的是你該解決的問題 嗎？或者這應該是其他人的問題，必須由他本人來解決呢？如果是後者的話，給予鼓 勵和支持會比直接幫他處理還要好。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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