You might want to go to the source of a problem to help a friend out. This is not your problem, dear Scorpio, but you may feel a strong need to help this person out. Perhaps you want to serve as an advocate, but before you do, you need to assess your role in this. Do you actually have a role? Is this truly your problem to solve? Or is this something the other party should be resolving on their own? If it's the latter, offering encouragement and support would be better than managing things directly. 你也许会想要找出问题的根源来帮助朋友，这不是你的问题，亲爱的天蠍，但是你可 能会觉得很想要帮这个人。或许你想要成为一名倡导者，不过在你这样做之前，你需 要评估自己在那之中的角色。你是真的有这个任务要做吗？这真的是你该解决的问题 吗？或者这应该是其他人的问题，必须由他本人来解决呢？如果是後者的话，给予鼓 励和支持会比直接帮他处理还要好。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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