A five-year-old quickly figures out ways to manipulate his parents. If the child wants a toy or a treat that they spot in the supermarket, and their parent says no, the child can go all out with a wildly embarrassing temper tantrum. If the parent caves in and gives the kid what they want, the manipulation increases. Pretty soon, you have a full-blown brat. This is a good analogy for you today, Scorpio, because someone may try to embarrass you or cause a scene to get what they want. If you cave in, you can expect more of the same. Don't give in to that provocation and foster bad behavior. 一個五歲的小孩很快就能想出辦法操縱他的父母親，如果這個孩子想要玩具或是在超 市瞥見的東西做為禮物，但他爸媽不買給他，於是這個孩子鬧脾氣，讓爸媽難堪。如 果爸媽屈服了，給了孩子他想要的東西，那麼孩子就越會操縱爸媽，不用多久，你便 獲得了一隻屁孩。今天這對你來說是很好的類比，天蠍，因為某個人也許試圖讓你難 堪，或是小題大作，只為了得到他想要的。如果你屈服了，你就可以預期接下來會繼 續發生類似的事，不要屈服於那種挑釁行為，也不要助長惡劣行徑。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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