A five-year-old quickly figures out ways to manipulate his parents. If the child wants a toy or a treat that they spot in the supermarket, and their parent says no, the child can go all out with a wildly embarrassing temper tantrum. If the parent caves in and gives the kid what they want, the manipulation increases. Pretty soon, you have a full-blown brat. This is a good analogy for you today, Scorpio, because someone may try to embarrass you or cause a scene to get what they want. If you cave in, you can expect more of the same. Don't give in to that provocation and foster bad behavior. 一个五岁的小孩很快就能想出办法操纵他的父母亲，如果这个孩子想要玩具或是在超 市瞥见的东西做为礼物，但他爸妈不买给他，於是这个孩子闹脾气，让爸妈难堪。如 果爸妈屈服了，给了孩子他想要的东西，那麽孩子就越会操纵爸妈，不用多久，你便 获得了一只屁孩。今天这对你来说是很好的类比，天蠍，因为某个人也许试图让你难 堪，或是小题大作，只为了得到他想要的。如果你屈服了，你就可以预期接下来会继 续发生类似的事，不要屈服於那种挑衅行为，也不要助长恶劣行径。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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