You may feel like turning to someone for guidance because they know more about a specific topic than you do, Scorpio. But how much more does this person know than you know? You can get to a satisfactory level - if not the same level - and resolve this, simply by researching and learning on your own, and you can come to a better understanding in this way because your decision will be based on your own background and your own wants and needs rather than on what someone else might infer or project. Trust in yourself. You can be your own expert and your own best advocate. 你可能會想要開始向某個人尋求指引，因為他比你還要了解某個特定的議題，天蠍。 但是這個人對那個議題的了解比你多多少呢？你可以了解到讓你自己滿意的程度—如 果跟他是不同的了解程度—那就解決這個分歧，只要藉由你自己獨力研究和學習，你 就能因此而對那個議題有更進一步的了解，因為你的決定將會奠基於你的成長背景、 你想要什麼和需要什麼，而不是出於其他人暗示或影射的緣由。你要相信自己，你可 以成為自己的專家和最棒的支持者。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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