You may feel like turning to someone for guidance because they know more about a specific topic than you do, Scorpio. But how much more does this person know than you know? You can get to a satisfactory level - if not the same level - and resolve this, simply by researching and learning on your own, and you can come to a better understanding in this way because your decision will be based on your own background and your own wants and needs rather than on what someone else might infer or project. Trust in yourself. You can be your own expert and your own best advocate. 你可能会想要开始向某个人寻求指引，因为他比你还要了解某个特定的议题，天蠍。 但是这个人对那个议题的了解比你多多少呢？你可以了解到让你自己满意的程度—如 果跟他是不同的了解程度—那就解决这个分歧，只要藉由你自己独力研究和学习，你 就能因此而对那个议题有更进一步的了解，因为你的决定将会奠基於你的成长背景、 你想要什麽和需要什麽，而不是出於其他人暗示或影射的缘由。你要相信自己，你可 以成为自己的专家和最棒的支持者。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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