作者hermione0826 (Charlotte)
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標題[心得] 11/1 BG: Negotiation Game:)
時間Sat Nov 1 22:53:05 2008
hmm...
Saturday BG 都是
10:00開始喔!
大家要養成
早到的好習慣喔!!(去年是9:00開始呢)
還有晚到的同學很快就進入狀況了~
今天的Negotiation Game大家應該都是第一次玩吧:)
大家很棒喔!
應該很
深刻感受到,和上次模擬開會的不一樣!
今天大家很
focused的討論一個主題,
大家提出的問題很
精確,
所以能
聚焦專心討論;
大家不再只是
單向陳述自己的立場,
而是建立了
對話、互動;
從提問、討論、一起想辦修正,
一拋一接、一接一傳、一傳再接,不斷循環,
而且你們很
有秩序的,一個一個解決。
討論的
深度與
品質完全取決於此:))
融合了上述的元素,溝通討論才能
有效率了解決問題:))
所以大家今天都不錯喔~
連平常很害羞的今天都努力發言了(妳的點超棒的阿!
講出來才更棒喔!!)
希望今天的BG讓你們得到開心的收穫,有幫助你們大MUN表現更棒喔XD
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
既然這次主題是
Negotiation,
我想和大家分享一下之前去參加活動聽到的演講~
那次國際談判中心主任陳彥豪博士和我們介紹了"Negotiatoin Theroy and Practice"
其中我想分給大家的是
"The Eight-Stage Negotiation Process"
1.
Preparing: A good result of a negotiation can be seen as involving seven
elemes. The better we handle each element, the better the outcome
will be.
(1)
Interests: Whatever our demand or “position”may be, we and others
involved in the negotiation would like an outcome that
meets interests—
the things we need or care about. The more
we have thought about our interests in advance, the more
likely we are to meet them.
(2)
Options: A good outcome should be among the best of all possible ways
to deal with our differing interests. By options we mean
possible agreements or pieces of a poss
ible agreement. The more
options we are able to put on the table, the more likely we are
to have one that will well reconcile our interests.
(3)
Alternatives: A good outcome should seem better than any alternative
away from the table, better than things we might do by
ourselves or with others. Before we sign ae deal— or turn
one down, we should have a good idea of what else we might
do.
(4)
Legitimacy: We do not want to be un
fairly treated, nor do others. It
will help to find
external standards that we can use as a
sword to persuade others that they are being treated fairly
and as a shield to protect usfrom being ripped off.
(5)
Communication: Other things being equal, an outcome is better if it is
reached effic
iently. That requires good two-way
communication as each side seeks to influence the other.
We want to think in advance about what to listen for
—and what to say.
(6)
Relationship: A good outcome will leave our working relationship
strengthened rather than damaged. Preparation can help us
think about the human interaction—about the people at
the table. We should have some idea about how to build a
relationship that
facilitates, rather than hinders,
agreement.
(7)
Commitment: The quality of an outcome is also measured by the quality of
the
promises that are made. Those commitments are likely to
be better if we have thought in advance about specific
promises that we realistically can expect, or make, during
or at the conclusion of a negotiation.
2.
Arguing:
Rational & Constructive> Emotional & Destructive
Interests > Positions
Issues > Negotiators
3.
Signaling: Use signaling to escape from arguing;
Receive and modify the signaling mutually
4.
Proposing: Relatively
positive and
tentative in diction and mood;
Firm in principle and
flexible in details;
Yielding less and
offering more conditions
5.
Packaging: Combine different variables
Create new packaging by integrating mutual interests among
negotiation parties;
Seek
win-win outcome in the main issues and allow zero-sum
situation in the minor issues
6.
Bargaining:
Positive proposing
Join the entire issues;
There must be
prices for very exchange and
conditions for every
concession
7.
Closing: Comprehensive; Threatening; Optional; Compromising;Recess
8.
Agreeing: Forms and status of the negotiation agreements
很有興趣的人,請耐心的繼續往下看:)
"Practical Skills of Negotiation"
1.
Patience(耐心): You wait. However anxious, you don’t show it.
Patience is a devastating weapon when the other side is
highly volatile.
When you set the pace, you control the deal
2.
Slow Agony(慢性折磨): The deal moves at a crawl. Every issue takes inordinate
amounts of time. Delays are frequent.
Slow agony
never says “no”; the deal never actually
stalls. This is an interesting defense against high
pressure.
3.
Apathy(沈著): Overt concern is minimal. Whether the deal goes or blows appear
immater
ial. You request without energy and respond without
passion.Apathy defends against high pressure.
4.
Empathy/sympathy: Concern is shown for the other side. This is a powerful
(同理心/同情心) tatic for
breaking deadlocks and bridging gaps. Such
feelings should be genuine. Do not feign personal concern;
compassion as a ruse is off limits. Use empathy/sympathy
when you mean it.
5.
Sudden Shifts(突然轉移): Whim and caprice do not build solid reputation.
Consistency is important, but sometimes it equals
sluggishness, even obstinacy. When talks are turgid
and momentumhas dissipated,
unexpected changes can
dislodge blockage and overcome obstacles.You have
nothing to lose by shaking the tree.
6.
Faking (佯裝): Dealmakers are like football halfbacks, able to feint one way
and run the other. Faking is more
trading than lying. Fake
when you want to
protect a particular point. For example, you
might insist on all cash in selling your home (or business)
just to be able to maintain your price when you finally
“concede”some seller financing—which you planned to concede
all along.
7.
Walking (離開現場): Closing your briefcase and leaving the room. A dead deal.
This tactic is less extreme than it looks. After all,
you can always reopen negotiations (though some of your
credibility is lost). Walking works when the other side
has more basic power and has pushed too hard too long.
Quitting is the ultimate leveler.
8.
Fait accompli(既成事實): The
threat to take unilateral action. The deal,or
something about it, would be irrevocably changed.
For example, when a financially troubled company
negotiates with creditors, each side can threaten to
file bankruptcy proceedings—which would pu all
decisions in the hands of the court. Use fait
accompli when you control a critical issue—but use
it cautiously.
9.
Salami(蠶食法): Cut a little here, a little there, and soon the salami is
all gone.
Some negotiators grind for small gain— but they
never stop. The deal is never done. You must stop these
people. Strict limits are the antidote for salami tactics.
10.
Limits(畫地自限): Allow the other side
to go so far but no farther.
Setting boundaries can be imposing, even riveting.
Don't do it often, but always make it count. Set your
limit once and stick to them. Use this tactic when the
other side keeps pushing.
11.
Deadlines(截止時間): Countdowns are contentious.
Calendar pressure is
troublesome. One must never make a hasty decision under
time constraint. Try to force yourself to go even a bit
slower than normal. If the deal evaporates, it
evaporates. It's far better to pass a dozen good deals
than to make one bad one.
12.
Antagonism (敵對法): Not a good tactic. More is accomplished by seeking
personal harmony even during professional disputes.
Nonetheless, people are antagonistic, some deliberately
as a technique, others because that's just the way
they are. Disarm the antagonism by
sidesteps, not body
blocks, by
leveraged angles, not frontal assaults.
Direct confrontation rarely
works. Try gentle
correction, tingedwith humor. "I see the new day
hasn't brought forth a new attitude." “I can't toughen
my position because you can’t get more upset."
@@手痠..希望這些東西也給大家一些啟發囉!
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1F:推 annwenjc :thanks charlotte!! 辛苦了! 超棒超實用的!! 11/01 22:56
2F:推 irisseraphic:Charlotte 你太偉大了喔喔喔喔喔喔!!! 11/02 00:17
3F:推 yhc1103 :大推~~辛苦了!!連我都該好好做筆記!! 11/02 17:41