You may be wondering now if someone you thought was on your side is really, tr uly on your side or not. That person may be raising issues or asking questions that make you feel they don't believe in you or in what you are doing, and th at may make you feel both angry and suspicious. But what if they are simply pl aying "devil's advocate," and bringing up topics that will come up eventually anyway? Maybe, by exploring these matters, you can handle them before you wind up in the spotlight and you will be able to answer them intelligently because you've had time to think. Don't dismiss that possibility, Leo. You should kno w soon which one of the two this is. 你可能正在懷疑某人是否真正站在你這邊，因為對方所提出的問題讓你感覺他並不真正相 信你，且讓你充滿氣憤與猜忌。但如果他們只是在扮黑臉，並把那些無論如何都會被提出 來的議題提前丟出來呢？ 試著從這樣的角度去理解看看如何呢？如果即時地發現這些未爆彈，你可以在事情尚未失 去控制之前處理好，也因為你有足夠的時間思考，就可以從容地面對這些問題。獅子們， 好好把握這些可能性，很快地你就會知道對方是敵是友。 — 如有誤譯還請包涵:) --

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