You may be wondering now if someone you thought was on your side is really, tr uly on your side or not. That person may be raising issues or asking questions that make you feel they don't believe in you or in what you are doing, and th at may make you feel both angry and suspicious. But what if they are simply pl aying "devil's advocate," and bringing up topics that will come up eventually anyway? Maybe, by exploring these matters, you can handle them before you wind up in the spotlight and you will be able to answer them intelligently because you've had time to think. Don't dismiss that possibility, Leo. You should kno w soon which one of the two this is. 你可能正在怀疑某人是否真正站在你这边，因为对方所提出的问题让你感觉他并不真正相 信你，且让你充满气愤与猜忌。但如果他们只是在扮黑脸，并把那些无论如何都会被提出 来的议题提前丢出来呢？ 试着从这样的角度去理解看看如何呢？如果即时地发现这些未爆弹，你可以在事情尚未失 去控制之前处理好，也因为你有足够的时间思考，就可以从容地面对这些问题。狮子们， 好好把握这些可能性，很快地你就会知道对方是敌是友。 — 如有误译还请包涵:) --

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