知道你的弱點的人同時也知道要怎麼踩爆你的地雷。獅子們，他們能挑起激怒你的話題，接下來會怎麼樣呢？不用說，當然你就炸毛了。如果事情真的發生了，這代表你失去了自我控制的能力，因為你的反應能被他人煽動。若你即將進入比較感性脆弱的狀態，那麼最好的方式就是提防這件事，再來是克服它。你不需要發脾氣、或做出將來會後悔的反應，尤其是當你已為此有所準備。 --------------- 原文： Someone who knows your weaknesses also knows how to push your buttons. They can pick up topics that they know will rile you up, Leo, and then what happens? You get riled up, of course. And if that happens, that means you have lost control of yourself because someone else has instigated your reaction. If you are about to enter into an emotional or vulnerable situation, then the best thing you can do is to be on guard for this. The next best thing would be to overcome this. You do not have to lose your temper or react in a way you'll regret - especially if you are prepared for it. --------------- 當對方扭動手腳甩著逗貓棒時， 只要坐定不動優雅地看著他，看到他心裡發寒， 如此一來可笑的就是對方了:3 --

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