知道你的弱点的人同时也知道要怎麽踩爆你的地雷。狮子们，他们能挑起激怒你的话题，接下来会怎麽样呢？不用说，当然你就炸毛了。如果事情真的发生了，这代表你失去了自我控制的能力，因为你的反应能被他人煽动。若你即将进入比较感性脆弱的状态，那麽最好的方式就是提防这件事，再来是克服它。你不需要发脾气、或做出将来会後悔的反应，尤其是当你已为此有所准备。 --------------- 原文： Someone who knows your weaknesses also knows how to push your buttons. They can pick up topics that they know will rile you up, Leo, and then what happens? You get riled up, of course. And if that happens, that means you have lost control of yourself because someone else has instigated your reaction. If you are about to enter into an emotional or vulnerable situation, then the best thing you can do is to be on guard for this. The next best thing would be to overcome this. You do not have to lose your temper or react in a way you'll regret - especially if you are prepared for it. --------------- 当对方扭动手脚甩着逗猫棒时， 只要坐定不动优雅地看着他，看到他心里发寒， 如此一来可笑的就是对方了:3 --

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