「會吵的小孩有糖吃。」獅子們，這可能是現在你處理特定問題的方式。或許你覺得對適當的人大聲、果敢地抱怨就能得到關照。但其實這會對你不利。你可能會讓其他當事人懷有戒心，而且由於他們不想被攤在聚光燈下，因此也不太願意承擔責任。試試看低調一點吧。用一對一的方式，能讓事情平和地進行。 ------------ 原文： “The squeaky wheel gets the grease" may be the approach you are taking with a particular problem now, Leo. You may feel that complaining loudly and assertively to the appropriate person will get things taken care of. Actually, though, it may work against you. You may put the other party on the defensive, and they may be unwilling to take responsibility because they don't want to be singled out in the spotlight. Try a more subtle approach. Talk one-on-one, and you may be able to work something out amicably. ------------ 如同因材施教的類似道理。 對行事低調的人，要用低調的方式對應。 當對方處在熟悉的溝通方式時， 也就更願意張開耳朵聆聽我們的要求:3 --

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