「会吵的小孩有糖吃。」狮子们，这可能是现在你处理特定问题的方式。或许你觉得对适当的人大声、果敢地抱怨就能得到关照。但其实这会对你不利。你可能会让其他当事人怀有戒心，而且由於他们不想被摊在聚光灯下，因此也不太愿意承担责任。试试看低调一点吧。用一对一的方式，能让事情平和地进行。 ------------ 原文： “The squeaky wheel gets the grease" may be the approach you are taking with a particular problem now, Leo. You may feel that complaining loudly and assertively to the appropriate person will get things taken care of. Actually, though, it may work against you. You may put the other party on the defensive, and they may be unwilling to take responsibility because they don't want to be singled out in the spotlight. Try a more subtle approach. Talk one-on-one, and you may be able to work something out amicably. ------------ 如同因材施教的类似道理。 对行事低调的人，要用低调的方式对应。 当对方处在熟悉的沟通方式时， 也就更愿意张开耳朵聆听我们的要求:3 --

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