Sometimes when we think about compromise, we don't see it in the correct way. You may be on the verge of compromising on something now, and there may be som e element of resentment on your part. That could be because you see it as givi ng in to someone else. You may not see it as meeting someone else halfway - bu t that's what compromise essentially is. You are each giving something up to g et something you want. Try to see compromise as a gift you are giving each oth er. If you can adjust your attitude towards compromise, you'd be much happier for it. — 有時，當我們在考慮是否妥協時，我們會以錯誤的方式看待它。 你現在可能就處在妥協的邊緣，而這件事可能會引起你的不滿。 那可能是因為你認為妥 協是屈服於他人，而不是將其視為與其他人合作的方式。 事實上，妥協是每個人都放棄一些東西以獲得想要的東西。 嘗試將妥協視為彼此贈送的 禮物。 如果你可以調整對妥協的態度，那麼你會為此感到高興。 --

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