Sometimes when we think about compromise, we don't see it in the correct way. You may be on the verge of compromising on something now, and there may be som e element of resentment on your part. That could be because you see it as givi ng in to someone else. You may not see it as meeting someone else halfway - bu t that's what compromise essentially is. You are each giving something up to g et something you want. Try to see compromise as a gift you are giving each oth er. If you can adjust your attitude towards compromise, you'd be much happier for it. — 有时，当我们在考虑是否妥协时，我们会以错误的方式看待它。 你现在可能就处在妥协的边缘，而这件事可能会引起你的不满。 那可能是因为你认为妥 协是屈服於他人，而不是将其视为与其他人合作的方式。 事实上，妥协是每个人都放弃一些东西以获得想要的东西。 尝试将妥协视为彼此赠送的 礼物。 如果你可以调整对妥协的态度，那麽你会为此感到高兴。 --

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