最近一直提供建議給你的人並不是你。叮咚叮咚，你是獨一無二絕絕無僅有的！雖然對於你正在進行的某些事，那些出於善意的親友可能深信他們知道什麼是為你好，但只有你才能肯定什麼適合自己，而且你才是最終要接受結果的人。然而，聽聽別人的意見，單純當作聽取事情的所有面向，對你或許是有利的。不過最終你會知道，最適合自己的是什麼。 ---------------- 原文: Not one of the people who's been giving you advice recently have ever been you. That's right. There is only one you, and you are it! Although your well-meaning friends and family members may believe they know what's right for you with something you are now engaged in, only you can know for sure, and you are the one who will ultimately have to live with the outcome. However, it might benefit you to listen to what others have to say simply as a way of hearing all the sides of it. But in the end, you will know what is best for you. ---------------- 只有你能為自己做決定。 雖然每次聽別人意見的時候都覺得， 不是你的事當然可以說得這麼輕鬆。 不過的確，針對同一件事每個人注重的觀點會不一樣。 當作蒐集情報，統整摸象的瞎子們的意見， 最後再自己決定目的地騎象而去:3 --

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