最近一直提供建议给你的人并不是你。叮咚叮咚，你是独一无二绝绝无仅有的！虽然对於你正在进行的某些事，那些出於善意的亲友可能深信他们知道什麽是为你好，但只有你才能肯定什麽适合自己，而且你才是最终要接受结果的人。然而，听听别人的意见，单纯当作听取事情的所有面向，对你或许是有利的。不过最终你会知道，最适合自己的是什麽。 ---------------- 原文: Not one of the people who's been giving you advice recently have ever been you. That's right. There is only one you, and you are it! Although your well-meaning friends and family members may believe they know what's right for you with something you are now engaged in, only you can know for sure, and you are the one who will ultimately have to live with the outcome. However, it might benefit you to listen to what others have to say simply as a way of hearing all the sides of it. But in the end, you will know what is best for you. ---------------- 只有你能为自己做决定。 虽然每次听别人意见的时候都觉得， 不是你的事当然可以说得这麽轻松。 不过的确，针对同一件事每个人注重的观点会不一样。 当作蒐集情报，统整摸象的瞎子们的意见， 最後再自己决定目的地骑象而去:3 --

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