You could easily respond with anger and aggression towards someone's ongoing behavior. Has someone overstepped their bounds? Hasn't treated you respectfully or fairly? Has been unkind in some way? If you were to lash out, you would only feed the fire and make things even more conflicted and difficult. But if you respond with kindness, respect, thoughtfulness, and all the things you wish were present in this exchange, you can turn the whole situation around. Take the high road, Leo. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字彙 *lash out: 猛烈抨擊 -- 你可以對某人持續的行為，簡單的表現出憤怒、敵意。 是否有人越矩？對你不尊重或不公平？還是，一直以不友善的方式？ 如果採取抨擊，只是在潑油救火，甚至讓事情變的更加矛盾和困難。 但如果在這次的交流中，你的回應是友善、尊重、親切的， 那麼所有事情將會依你所希望的樣子，你可能扭轉整個局面。 不跟別人一般見識。 -- 摘要：硬碰硬，吃虧的永遠是自己喔。 -- 呃，有時被惹到惱火，哪還能有氣質的不和他一般見識。（艸） --

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