You could easily respond with anger and aggression towards someone's ongoing behavior. Has someone overstepped their bounds? Hasn't treated you respectfully or fairly? Has been unkind in some way? If you were to lash out, you would only feed the fire and make things even more conflicted and difficult. But if you respond with kindness, respect, thoughtfulness, and all the things you wish were present in this exchange, you can turn the whole situation around. Take the high road, Leo. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字汇 *lash out: 猛烈抨击 -- 你可以对某人持续的行为，简单的表现出愤怒、敌意。 是否有人越矩？对你不尊重或不公平？还是，一直以不友善的方式？ 如果采取抨击，只是在泼油救火，甚至让事情变的更加矛盾和困难。 但如果在这次的交流中，你的回应是友善、尊重、亲切的， 那麽所有事情将会依你所希望的样子，你可能扭转整个局面。 不跟别人一般见识。 -- 摘要：硬碰硬，吃亏的永远是自己喔。 -- 呃，有时被惹到恼火，哪还能有气质的不和他一般见识。（艹） --

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