Getting revenge on someone who has wronged you may provide a fleeting moment of satisfaction. But for someone with integrity - like you, Leo - that satisfaction will not last. It will be quickly followed by a wave of rather negative feelings, such as guilt and regret. You may be angry with someone now for some way they have hurt you or wronged you. You may be fantasizing about all the ways you could put this person in their place. Instead, do something positive. Help someone out. It doesn't have to be the same person, but that might be especially satisfying - and that satisfaction would last. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字彙 *integrity: 正直的 -- 對不公平對待你的人進行報復，可能讓你有短暫的滿足感。 但對於像你這樣正直的人，這種滿足感不會持續太久， 反倒消極的情緒將隨之而來，如內疚、後悔。 你現在可能感到憤怒，因為某人的行為而受傷或受到不公平的對待。 你可能正在幻想任何對付這個人的方式。 相反的，你也能做些正向的事情，像幫助別人。 不一定得同一個人，但做這些事可能特別令你感到滿足，這種滿足感將持續著。 -- 摘要：報復是空虛的，放下吧，以德報怨。 -- 或許感情上、工作上滿腹委屈，覺得不以牙還牙心裡不痛快。 但報復回去，出一口氣了，然後呢？短暫的痛快，之後只剩下空虛。 而其實有時反而是種轉機，端看自己怎麼想、怎麼做。 別把自己也變成那種人了，相由心生！ --

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