Getting revenge on someone who has wronged you may provide a fleeting moment of satisfaction. But for someone with integrity - like you, Leo - that satisfaction will not last. It will be quickly followed by a wave of rather negative feelings, such as guilt and regret. You may be angry with someone now for some way they have hurt you or wronged you. You may be fantasizing about all the ways you could put this person in their place. Instead, do something positive. Help someone out. It doesn't have to be the same person, but that might be especially satisfying - and that satisfaction would last. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字汇 *integrity: 正直的 -- 对不公平对待你的人进行报复，可能让你有短暂的满足感。 但对於像你这样正直的人，这种满足感不会持续太久， 反倒消极的情绪将随之而来，如内疚、後悔。 你现在可能感到愤怒，因为某人的行为而受伤或受到不公平的对待。 你可能正在幻想任何对付这个人的方式。 相反的，你也能做些正向的事情，像帮助别人。 不一定得同一个人，但做这些事可能特别令你感到满足，这种满足感将持续着。 -- 摘要：报复是空虚的，放下吧，以德报怨。 -- 或许感情上、工作上满腹委屈，觉得不以牙还牙心里不痛快。 但报复回去，出一口气了，然後呢？短暂的痛快，之後只剩下空虚。 而其实有时反而是种转机，端看自己怎麽想、怎麽做。 别把自己也变成那种人了，相由心生！ --

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