Has someone in your life disappointed you once again, Leo? Even if this was unintentional, it is still frustrating, and it may make you angry. You may feel that by now this person should know better and should be more aware of what they are doing. To you, that's a responsibility that you take seriously. However, if you storm in all in a rage, you won't get to the bottom of this or make any meaningful change. Turn the heat down and calmly talk it over and allow this person to understand that you are upset. That will have a much better impact. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字彙 *(un)intentional: (not) planned or intended *frustrating: making you feel annoyed or less confident because you cannot achieve what you want *aware of/that *get to the bottom of (sth): to discover the truth about a situation *much better -- 你是否對某些人再次感到失望？即使他這次是無心的，卻同樣讓你感到憤怒與心灰意冷。 或許現在的你，能更加明白感覺得到他們做了什麼。 因為對你來說，你把他們當做一回事。 然而，如果你怒髮衝冠，將無法了解現況或對現況有任何意義的改變。 靜下心，心平氣和的對話，讓這個人了解你生氣的點，會比你氣噗噗的對話更有效。 -- 摘要：別因覺得真心換絕情而生氣，理性溝通，說不定是你誤會了。 -- 所以要喝紅茶淡定的意思嗎。ˊ_>ˋ --

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