Has someone in your life disappointed you once again, Leo? Even if this was unintentional, it is still frustrating, and it may make you angry. You may feel that by now this person should know better and should be more aware of what they are doing. To you, that's a responsibility that you take seriously. However, if you storm in all in a rage, you won't get to the bottom of this or make any meaningful change. Turn the heat down and calmly talk it over and allow this person to understand that you are upset. That will have a much better impact. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字汇 *(un)intentional: (not) planned or intended *frustrating: making you feel annoyed or less confident because you cannot achieve what you want *aware of/that *get to the bottom of (sth): to discover the truth about a situation *much better -- 你是否对某些人再次感到失望？即使他这次是无心的，却同样让你感到愤怒与心灰意冷。 或许现在的你，能更加明白感觉得到他们做了什麽。 因为对你来说，你把他们当做一回事。 然而，如果你怒发冲冠，将无法了解现况或对现况有任何意义的改变。 静下心，心平气和的对话，让这个人了解你生气的点，会比你气噗噗的对话更有效。 -- 摘要：别因觉得真心换绝情而生气，理性沟通，说不定是你误会了。 -- 所以要喝红茶淡定的意思吗。ˊ_>ˋ --

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