作者stuj9019 (MLGPRO)
看板Leo
標題[情報] 3/28 DailyHoroscope
時間Tue Mar 27 18:27:20 2018
You may find it hard to turn down an insistent friend or loved one who seems d
esperate for your assistance. You have helped this person out in the past, Leo
, and it has at times derailed your own personal plans. Even so, this person m
ay be quite beguiling and manipulative, and you may feel guilty for turning th
em away. But there certainly is a way to compromise that will be good for ever
yone. Why not offer to mentor this person, rather than offering your own hard
work and assistance? Teaching others enables them to help themselves and will
ease your burden in the future.
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你也許發現很難拒絕你朋友或愛人的請求。你過去經常在扶持這個人,而你經常為了他們
犧牲自己的計畫。即使如此,這個人可能很有魅力或很懂得操控人心,因此你會因為拒絕
他們而有罪惡感。但妥協能夠創造出雙贏的局面。為何不試試看教導他們方法而是直接給
他們成品呢?這會讓他們學會自助也能在未來減輕你的負擔
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懶人包:與其給他魚不如給他釣竿
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