You may have to clearly define your boundaries more if someone keeps stepping over them. A certain person in your friendship or work circle may be encroaching on your territory to an uncomfortable degree. You have probably been polite about it, Leo, because you don't want to spoil the relationship. Clearly, though, this person is not getting the message. If this continues to happen, you will have to roar a bit louder, and be more assertive in declaring your need for space. You have to do what you have to do. ——————————————————————— 如果有人一直踩到你的底線，也許你需要更清楚的宣告說你的容忍度到哪。你朋友或是工作圈中的某一人也許會侵犯到你的領域，並將他帶到一個令人不舒服的地步。你也許一直保持著禮貌，因為你不想摧毀這段關係。但很明顯的，這號人物並沒有接收到你的訊息，如果這種事情仍然一直發生，你需要做的更直接一點。你必須要更加果斷的說出你需要空間，做出你必須要做的。 ——————————————————————— 懶人包：如果文明是要我們卑躬屈膝，那我就讓你們看看野蠻的驕傲 ——————————————————————— 洨學堂 encroaching：攻城掠地 roar：嘶吼 assertive：斷言的 --

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