You may have to clearly define your boundaries more if someone keeps stepping over them. A certain person in your friendship or work circle may be encroaching on your territory to an uncomfortable degree. You have probably been polite about it, Leo, because you don't want to spoil the relationship. Clearly, though, this person is not getting the message. If this continues to happen, you will have to roar a bit louder, and be more assertive in declaring your need for space. You have to do what you have to do. ——————————————————————— 如果有人一直踩到你的底线，也许你需要更清楚的宣告说你的容忍度到哪。你朋友或是工作圈中的某一人也许会侵犯到你的领域，并将他带到一个令人不舒服的地步。你也许一直保持着礼貌，因为你不想摧毁这段关系。但很明显的，这号人物并没有接收到你的讯息，如果这种事情仍然一直发生，你需要做的更直接一点。你必须要更加果断的说出你需要空间，做出你必须要做的。 ——————————————————————— 懒人包：如果文明是要我们卑躬屈膝，那我就让你们看看野蛮的骄傲 ——————————————————————— 洨学堂 encroaching：攻城掠地 roar：嘶吼 assertive：断言的 --

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