※ 引述《Iamlavender (Impossible is Nothing)》之銘言： : ※ 引述《justenvoy (我只是愛流浪...)》之銘言： : : 我也是很喜歡翰陞阿 他好的地方也是說不完 我覺得不好的也一兩個罷了... : : 每個人總是有不同感覺囉... : 老實說 你講的感覺 我可以了解 : 就像是補習班主任 每到收錢時 就在那邊喊說 補習費在不漲價 她們都要餓死了 : 現在都是賠錢開班 或是咬緊牙關度小月 : 但就從授課老師單方面所傳出的資訊 多是誰家B字頭車開膩了 準備換啦 : 不然就是怎樣 又花了萬把元之類的 : 中間這兩者矛盾的落差 直可說是鬼打牆般的接都接不上 : 除了幾位家有恆產的"清寒教育工作者"外 : 相信多數的老師都是從一般家庭出身 : 也更相信他們也知道這個社會是一個什麼都漲 唯獨父母薪水不漲的滋味 : 每位老師 賣的都是自己的智慧財產 : 當然 你高興怎麼花真的是他們家關起門來的事 : 只是於學生面前 適不適合提到這種與一般家庭高落差的消費行為 : 則還是請各位清寒的教育工作者稍為衡量一下 : 說者無意聽者有心 叫補習班摸著良心少吸學生一點錢連我自己都覺得這是瘋話 : 所以 只能請對方 多將心比心的想一下 : 對於多少家庭來說 "補習"已經變成一種奢侈的消費 : 誰都枝道你有錢 你高興怎麼花就怎麼花 : 但也不必再別人為了1千元苦惱時 妳再旁邊拿一張白金卡 喊著該怎麼花錢很傷腦筋 : 我覺得 沒有誰絕對都是對的 誰一定就是錯的 : 就是要一種將心比心的感覺而已~ I think it's one-sided opinion for u to express ur feelings..... Maybe you have forgotten what I had told all of you how poor I was cuz my parents had a 20 million dollar debt in 1985. And it took me 18 years to earn every penny to make my living and pay for the debt..... Since you say that this is a society full of expensive goods and everyone's parents can't get a promotion in their position and salary, then how come there are so many magnificent villa and mansion built in every big city in Taiwan. I always tell my students to study hard to make their lives more reliable and stable. Most of the time, I tell you guys the truth cuz I don't want to lie to you. However, all of my friends and colleagues always persuade me not to say so much. I have so many students and I also work 60 hours a week standing all day teaching, speaking and editing handouts (49 weeks a year )( for the past 10 years ). Should I be poor, or always tell u I am poor?! What you said is not fair. YOU can't tell a doctor, lawyer,CEO,accountant to live like all citizens and forbid them to show their sense of achievement cuz you think that's not considerate for the poor family. ON the contrar, I should tell those kids to work hard to make their parents live better life because of their achievement. This is the first time for me to express my feelings and I deeply hope it can be helpful...by the way, I seldom tell u guys about my wife's jewelry or my cars; however, i always tell my students to come to me if they are in need..... Thanks anyway, though I am deeply sad about your opinion of me.....I think I am not as good and considerate as I thought of myself.................... --

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