If you hang a velvet rope to divide a certain section of a movie theater, most people will respect that boundary and not attempt to sit in those seats. Howe ver, there will always be someone who will think it's okay to break the rules. You may be thinking that the instructions you have given to someone to stay o n their side of an argument or issue will be respected, but you may be wrong, dear Gemini. You may be dealing with someone who does not deserve the respect you are prepared to give in this situation. You are encouraged to be more asse rtive and formal about stating where the lines are drawn. 如果你在電影院裡掛一條天鵝絨的繩子來劃分某個區域， 大多數人都會尊重這條界線，不會試圖坐在那些座位上。 然而，總會有人認為打破規則是可以接受的。 你可能認為，指示某個人在爭論或問題上保持立場， 但是你可能錯了，親愛的雙子座。 你面對的可能是一個不值得你在這種情況下給予尊重的人。 我們鼓勵你更有自信、更正式的說明他們在哪裡。 Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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