If you hang a velvet rope to divide a certain section of a movie theater, most people will respect that boundary and not attempt to sit in those seats. Howe ver, there will always be someone who will think it's okay to break the rules. You may be thinking that the instructions you have given to someone to stay o n their side of an argument or issue will be respected, but you may be wrong, dear Gemini. You may be dealing with someone who does not deserve the respect you are prepared to give in this situation. You are encouraged to be more asse rtive and formal about stating where the lines are drawn. 如果你在电影院里挂一条天鹅绒的绳子来划分某个区域， 大多数人都会尊重这条界线，不会试图坐在那些座位上。 然而，总会有人认为打破规则是可以接受的。 你可能认为，指示某个人在争论或问题上保持立场， 但是你可能错了，亲爱的双子座。 你面对的可能是一个不值得你在这种情况下给予尊重的人。 我们鼓励你更有自信、更正式的说明他们在哪里。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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