A conversation you are planning to have today with someone you see as intense or difficult could get ugly if it turns into an argument. If you are aware of this possibility going into that conversation, you can stay in control of your emotions and carefully choose the words you use so that the situation doesn't get out of hand. That will be important if you truly wish to resolve a linger ing problem with this individual. If you lose control of your own emotions, it could go the wrong way. If you set the tone for harmony, you have a great cha nce of working things out. 如果您打算與某個您認為過於激烈或難以相處的人進行對話， 而談話內容又演變成爭論，那麼談話的內容就會變得很糟糕。 如果你在談話中意識到這種可能性， 你可以控制自己的情緒並謹慎選擇使用的詞語， 以免情況失控。 如果你確實希望解決與這個人之間長期存在的問題， 這一點很重要。 如果你無法控制自己的情緒，事情可能會變得很糟糕。 如果你能為和諧定下基調，那麼事情就會有很大的機會得到解決。 Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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