A conversation you are planning to have today with someone you see as intense or difficult could get ugly if it turns into an argument. If you are aware of this possibility going into that conversation, you can stay in control of your emotions and carefully choose the words you use so that the situation doesn't get out of hand. That will be important if you truly wish to resolve a linger ing problem with this individual. If you lose control of your own emotions, it could go the wrong way. If you set the tone for harmony, you have a great cha nce of working things out. 如果您打算与某个您认为过於激烈或难以相处的人进行对话， 而谈话内容又演变成争论，那麽谈话的内容就会变得很糟糕。 如果你在谈话中意识到这种可能性， 你可以控制自己的情绪并谨慎选择使用的词语， 以免情况失控。 如果你确实希望解决与这个人之间长期存在的问题， 这一点很重要。 如果你无法控制自己的情绪，事情可能会变得很糟糕。 如果你能为和谐定下基调，那麽事情就会有很大的机会得到解决。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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